An author and friend of mine currently has a book out that many women need to read!
Woman Submit! Christians & Domestic Violence
Is packed with information which not only empowers battered / abused Christian women to navigate the minefield of abuse and domestic violence, but it also empowers churches, Christian Ministries and individuals to offer compassionate, effective and biblical support to the battered or abused women within their congregations and spheres of influence.
Her website is: http://jocelynandersen.com/