Thursday, August 27, 2009

Thursday Excerpt & Last Stop!!

Today's post is more than an excerpt. And it's a special thanks to my blog tour hosts and those who followed along!

It is also the very last day of my tour. Please see my sidebar and visit Kathy’s blog & Belle of the Books for the final features.

Thanks to everyone listed below for allowing me to visit your blog through reviews, guest posts, & interviews. This was a lot of fun, and a lot of work, for everyone involved. In addition to those who featured me from August 11-27, I’d also like to thank the seventeen individuals who featured me on Deviant Art with interview questions & announcements. My hosts were all awesome and the comments received wonderful. Thank you, everyone!

And if you missed any of these stops, I’ve provided a direct link to the post:

J Kaye’s Book Blog & Giveaway Guest post - From Dream to 5-Book Series
TexasRed Books Review & Interview
Genevieve's Blog Interview & Giveaway
Jamieson Wolf Review
Jo-Jo Loves to Read Review & Giveaway
Frenetic Reader Guest post - Challenge of Writing 5 Overlapping Books
Always Something to Read & Interview & Review
Pudgy Penguin Perusals & Giveaway Guest post - Abuse & Self-image-James's Story
The Story Siren Guest post - Writing from a Male POV
Today's Adventure
Find Your Next Book Here Guest post - Do the Right Thing
Hidden Cait
Kathy Erskine’s Blog
Belle of the Books

NEWS FLASH! This article DID appear today at Belle of the Books !!!

The Cycle Ends Now
By James Alan Sheppard

I will not remain a prisoner of my past.
I will not repeat the mistakes of my father.
I will not hurt those I love.
The cycle of abuse stops here…


I stare at those words as they lay scrawled across my notebook paper. They were written earlier today during my anger management class. I should’ve been paying attention, but I just couldn’t relate to those who were speaking. I feel so out of place there, but at this point, I don’t know what else to do.

I endured many years of emotional and physical abuse at the hands of my father. And now I’m terrified I’ll turn out just like him…

I hate living with that fear, too. It’s a tough burden to carry, especially alone. Seeing my father’s reflection in my mirror, hearing his angry voice in my own – fear just haunts me. Some days it feels like I am smothering. The sensation weighs down my heart and I often go days without smiling. I live trapped in a bad dream, only waking on rare occasions.

It’s difficult to hide my nightmare, especially from my closest friends. Bad enough they know my past and the pain I endured. God only knows their opinion of me if they knew my hidden anxiety, though. Those dark thoughts I share with no one. I should take comfort in the fact none of my friends ever expressed concern that I’d act like my father. Maybe they see something I don’t.

More than anything, I just want to erase the pain. Some days I feel so depressed, it almost angers me to see others enjoying their life. I want to be happy, too! Of course, I just feel like striking out at whoever crosses my path at that point, and that sensation scares me. If I could just forget my lonely childhood… I can’t carry this burden forever.

My father used words and fists to intimidate and exact compliance, but I don’t want that to be the extent of my communication with others. I don’t want my friends to fear me. That’s why I have to get a handle on this now, before I do something really, really stupid. I don’t like anger management, but it may be my only chance for a better life. And I’ve got to try.

So, I’m back to those words written during class. Cold and defiant, they are a challenge, and I can either cower in fear or stand up and defend myself. If I ever wanted to fight, now is the time. My past does not equal my future.

The cycle of abuse ends now…

11 comments:

Elizabeth Spann Craig said...

That's a powerful excerpt, Diane. Well written.

Sorry about the one host. Hope she's okay...it sounds like something may have abruptly happened to her.

Elizabeth
Mystery Writing is Murder

L. Diane Wolfe said...

Thanks!

I know, one has to wonder if something happened or she just stopped blogging. Bummer because she had a review copy as well. Oh well!

The Old Silly said...

Nicely done, Diane! Hey I know the feeling when a host "drops out" of existence after agreeing to a stop on your tour. I had TWO blogs do that to me on my last tour. I had picked them cuz they had big followings, lots of traffic, posted almost daily, all the good stuff. then after getting the tour all set - POOF! They just stopped blogging! No replies to emails, nothing! Made me think I'd better pray for them, might be some trouble or something.

Marvin D Wilson

Karen Walker said...

Congratulations, Diane, on what appears to be a very successful blog tour. This is a powerful excerpt and an issue that is so crucial--ending the cycle of abuse. That you are writing about it for young adults is so fabulous. Wish I'd had resources like this when I was a teenager.
Blessings to you,
Karen

Crystal Clear Proofing said...

Thank you for posting what would have been featured yesterday. It is indeed a very powerful excerpt! Every "teaser" you've given throughout just reinforces HAVING to read this book! (You are so very good at that!)

It has been a great experience and real pleasure to follow your tour!

L. Diane Wolfe said...

Thank YOU for following, Crystal!
There wasn't much in the way of encouragement when I was a teen either, Karen. But young adults so desperately need it! At a point in one's life when there is so much uncertainty and confusion, there needs to be a ray of hope!

Helen Ginger said...

Congratulations on your tour, even with one missing stop.

What a powerful excerpt. I haven't read your books, but I have a feeling they are powerful as well - and they fill a void for many young adults.

Helen
Straight From Hel

Missy said...

Thanks for posting that powerful excerpt...I enjoyed reading it and thinking about James.
Congratulations also, on your successful tour!

Elizabeth McKenzie said...

Wow, I was right there with in the story. You drew me in. Thanks for posting.

Creative Chronicler said...

Congratulations on your tour! I haven't hit all the stops yet but the ones I have were great and I learned a few new things about you. You are truly a gift to us all.

Just finished Overcoming Obstacles with spunk and should have a review posted on my blog later today. And for those reading this post, buy her book! It's spunkylicious!!

Thanks for being you!!

Chris C.
http://cc-chronicles.blogspot.com

L. Diane Wolfe said...

Thank you, Chris! That is awesome!