This will be an ongoing series that will hopefully
help you with character details and depth. Since I have really long hair, I
decided to start it off with a little bit of humor at my expense.
There are a lot of reasons for selecting long hair
for your characters. But be aware of the disadvantages:
- Long hair requires a lot of care. It takes more shampoo and conditioner. There are more knots and tangles. And we won’t even talk about how long it takes to dry.
- It gets caught on clothing. It can get tangled when taking off a shirt. It can get tucked into jeans - even underwear.
- It’s a challenge at meal times. Either tie it back or risk it getting into the food. (I can get away with this on spaghetti night, though.)
- Long hair accumulates faster on the floor, hairbrush, and in the shower drain.
- Long hair can get caught in drawers, doors, car windows, and even sun roofs.
- At night, long hair can become very tangled. The options are tie it up or flop it over the top of the pillow. Someone else could also roll over on it.
- Which leads to another scenario where long hair gets in the way. Enough said.
- With really long hair, when bending over to retrieve something from the floor, all that hair falls forward. Finding something on the floor can only be done by touch.
- When the wind blows, visibility is also greatly reduced. Your character isn’t the walking dead but the walking blind.
Just remember those problems if you give your
character long hair. You may or may not want her to trip up on her own hair!
I love your hair, Diane!
ReplyDeleteAnd I'll second everything you've said about it. Mine isn't quite as long as yours, but it definitely gets in the way sometimes (especially, yes, when eating)!
I love your hair too. And these are good things to consider if you have a character with really long hair.
ReplyDeleteYou have GORGEOUS hair. I tried to have very long hair too once, but I hated to be stuck on my own hair whenever I tried to turn in bed :)
ReplyDeleteIts also hot and gets in your face when you're trying to sleep. I used to always get a knot at the nape of my neck.
ReplyDeleteLoved your post today!
Me three! I love your hair too. Great tips. I have really short hair, almost a pixie cut. It's much different.
ReplyDeleteI didn't think of all those challenges with long hair. But it sounds like it is worth it! And your hair is beautiful!
ReplyDeleteAll true. A character with long hair will probably carry a barrette or scrungie (to pull it up in a ponytail) if it gets windy outside. Or just in the way and annoying. I'm always dismayed when I get in a car with the windows down only to find out I have NOTHING to pull it into a ponytail. By end of trip, my hair is a wild, tangled mess... and I couldn't see anything the whole way!
ReplyDeleteExcellent points.
ReplyDeleteOne that really chaps my hide is hair getting stuck or wrapped around screws or nuts in the walls or chairs, etc.
Get up or walk away always leave behind a few strands and a sore head!
These were great! My hair isn't quite as long as yours, but it's pretty damn close! I think my least favorite part of the day is getting all the knots out after I wash it.
ReplyDeleteYou're like Rapunzel!
ReplyDeleteI knew you had long hair, but I didn't realize just how long it was. I don't think I could do it. In fact, I'm tempted to shave my head to keep from having to mess with it.
I have long hair like that, down to my butt I actually find it easier to take care of than short hair. I don't have to get it cut ever 4 to 6 weeeks. Yes, I've all those things happen, but throwing it up uin a twist, knot, braid is SO easy!
ReplyDeleteVanessa, that's why I flop it over my pillow now.
ReplyDeleteShelly, hot isn't good in summer, but long hair makes great earmuffs in winter.
Robin, I always have a scrunchie. If you think riding with windows down is bad, try indoor skydiving. I didn't think I'd ever get the knots out of my hair.
Holly, that happens!
Jay, it's long enough I sit on it. I should've included that in my post.
Bish, that is a very good point.
I always wished my hair would get long. Actually, wet, it sort of is--it reached my mid-back and considering how tall I am, that is pretty long, but it's curly, so it only reaches about half that dry... Curly hair has it's own set of stuff. Good stuff to keep in mind in writing though--it is definitely something that can be a hassle.
ReplyDeleteThese are all good points! I have a pixie cut, so when I write about characters with long hair, I have to think back to when my hair was long and imagine how it might get in the way. (Short hair has its challenges too, though -- my head is freezing in the winter unless I wear a hat.)
ReplyDeleteYour hair is beautiful. I smiled the whole way through your post. My daughter has really long, thick hair. If she ties it up after showering, it could take two days or more to dry. And let's not talk about what that long hair does to the vacuum. Sore subject at our house.
ReplyDeleteI had a mullet once and that was way too long.
ReplyDeleteYour hair is pretty stunning. The other day I read that people with red hair never go gray. I don't know if that's true or not, but it's kind of cool if it is.
ReplyDeleteHair is often a trait of a female that catches my attention right away. Though I like short hair on a woman too.
Good points about using details about hair when creating a fictional character. It can become a vital detail in certain situations that goes beyond a characters appearance.
Arlee Bird
A to Z Challenge Co-host
Tossing It Out
I love it when people have long and lovely hair. And your post says you definitely do. But how great to tie that in with characterizing. Very clever.
ReplyDeletegreat little details to keep in mind. My current MC plays basketball and is always fretting with her hair. At home, is always walking around with her hair wrapped up in a towel. Sound familiar?
ReplyDeleteI had no idea your hair was that long. I love list of pros and cons.
ReplyDeleteSo true. I like having long hair because it's prettier, but I hate the maintenance involved. Plus it gets too hot during the summer.
ReplyDeleteYour hair is GORGEOUS!
Very funny post! And certainly something to keep in mind with character development. Thanks for the tip!
ReplyDeleteI laughed at a couple of those. I had no idea how irritating long hair could be...if you let it. :)
ReplyDeleteYour hair is a lot longer than mine, but I'm growing it out because I want to donate my hair again to Locks of Love. I hate it when my hair gets so long that I sleep on it. Now I have to sleep with my hair in a ponytail.
ReplyDeleteAs you know I once had very long hair. Cut it in my 20s and never looked back. Luckily my husband does NOT like long hair.
ReplyDeleteHa! Yeah, that all sounds about right. And good point on remembering things like that for a long-haired character. It's details like that that writers tend to forget about.
ReplyDeleteI"ve always wanted long hair. I'd been growing my hair out for years and just when I finally had it past my shoulders I had to lob it all off. But this time, after reading this, I think I like my hair at medium length. As for whether or not, I'll give my character(s) long hair that's still up in the air. But at least now I know its disadvantages. Great post.
ReplyDeleteYour hair is beautiful. If I had better hair, it would wear it longer. But I don't think I have the temperament for hair like yours. All I would do would be to put it up, and that defeats the purpose.
ReplyDeleteDiane
ReplyDeleteI love this post!! I say what everyone else has, too: your hair is gorgeous! Thanks for the "real world" of what long hair really entails.
I've always worn long hair, not ever quite as long as yours, but at one point in my life it was way down my back. And you are right about characters. We, as writers, need to remember this.
ReplyDeleteI've always worn long hair, not ever quite as long as yours, but at one point in my life it was way down my back. And you are right about characters. We, as writers, need to remember this.
ReplyDeleteI always had a thing for growing my hair lone and without sisters, never had any feedback. Always chickened out though. Daughters all had long hair, so I braided, twisted, untangled, etc.
ReplyDeleteGreat details to have in a character traits.
You have beautiful hair, Diane! I agree with the things you said since I used to have long hair too years ago. I miss having so much hair but it is easier now. Good thoughts to consider for a character with long hair.
ReplyDeleteDiane, your hair is amazing! You could almost use it as a cape and fly around town on a windy day.
ReplyDeleteEven as old as I am, my hair grows really fast. It only takes about 3 years to go from crew cut to waist length. (my sister gets jealous!) When long, it gets in the way all sorts of ways. When short, I miss the annoying aspects.
ReplyDeleteThere is good reason for long haired people to keep it is braids :)
Your hair is so pretty, not just long but such a wonderful color. I never really thought of the downsides, surprisingly as both my teens have long hair. This is going to be a great series. Thanks.
ReplyDeleteI never knew long hair was so problematic for finding something on the floor so we appreciate the sacrifice L. Diane!
ReplyDeleteHart, two of my best friends have curly hair so I know what you go through.
ReplyDeleteShelly, I come with my own hat and earmuffs.
Susan, I forgot about the vacuum. My husband is always cutting my hair from ours. He says I should be bald by now.
Lee, that is sadly not true.
Mac, I do that after a shower with a second towel.
Lidy, once it gets this long, you're committed.
Hi Jackie!
Stephen - LOL!
Maurice, you're welcome. LOL
I always hated how my parents made me have short hair as a kid, and was thrilled when I finally was allowed to grow it to a normal feminine length when I was in fourth grade. My bangs grew out as well. I never had short hair again until I was 24 and donated my hair for the first time. As much as I love long hair, it makes me look even shorter and younger, due to my soft, immature facial feature. I'll also be covering my hair if I ever marry, so it won't matter how long or short it is then anyway. Having shorter hair does make it easier to cover, though.
ReplyDeleteFun post, Diane. I'd at least like mine long enough to pull back in a short tail, but I never have the patience to grow it out that far.
ReplyDeleteVery funny post...love your long hair. I remember a time when mine was that long!
ReplyDeleteI had long hair like that at various times in my life (I've done Locks of Love twice as an adult - my hair just grows fast), and it definitely creates some interesting situations. My oldest daughter finds it to be a nice extra layer of warmth in the winter, especially while skiing.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful hair. I had waist-length hair for many years. I remember it took forever to air dry and it tangled easily.
ReplyDeleteYour hair is gorgeous and so are you! I wish I could get my hair to grow that long. :)
ReplyDeleteI love that you have given all this information about long hair. This could come in very handy.
Your hair is lovely, Diane! Like Rapunzel... only yours is auburn...
ReplyDeleteI can imagine the amount of patience you require, to keep those tresses in shape...
And imagine what fun it would be, creating a character with long hair?
All of which is why I have short hair. I'm too lazy to take care of long tresses. But you made me realize I always give my female protags short hair, too. Projecting myself unto the character? Maybe.
ReplyDeleteHahaha! "It gets caught on clothing. It can get tangled when taking off a shirt. It can get tucked into jeans - even underwear." <--love this.
ReplyDeleteFunny list, all things I haven't really considered. The longest my hair has been was to my waist in 8th grade. Now, I've come to enjoy my short locks. They're so easy to color, and the damage grows out quickly.
LOVE it. I've never been able to grown my hair that long, but I have experienced many of the issues you discuss. I just laugh when reading a fantasy story and the but-kicking heroine has long hair...that magically never interferes with her roundhouse. Ah the joys of fiction...
ReplyDeleteI used to have hair as long as yours, and I know what a pain it was getting drains unclogged!
ReplyDeleteNot to mention how awful it can be in humid climates like Mexico. I keep having to remind myself that back in Canada my hair will no longer be dry and brittle. Great post, Diane. We need to remember these facts if our character has long hair.
ReplyDeleteI've had hair almost that long - but not as beautiful as yours! I almost always wear it in a pony tail and it still sheds everywhere. Argh! Great character tips - thanks!
ReplyDeleteYour hair is beautiful.
ReplyDeleteI used to have long hair. My senior year in high school it was long enough to get caught in the metal buttons that held the plastic seats together. That wasn't fun at all. It can be a challenge to have longer hair.
Hey Diane,
ReplyDeleteFinally, I have arrived. Yay n'stuff....
Long flowing locks suit you, Diane. I don't have to worry about such things as I getting close to becoming a skinhead. Makes for a nice, smooth character in my stories. As for the dog, she reckons the more hair dropped on the carpet, the better.
Gary :)
Hope you've had a great weekend, Diane.
ReplyDeleteYou have such beautiful hair! I can relate to some of those instances. I had long hair for a very long time and remember it getting caught/stuck in the weirdest ways! Thanks for this post. I have a long haired protagonist and I can see some humorous situations interjecting themselves into my story now :)
ReplyDeleteI've always envied people who can grow their hair long. Mine is too fine and thin *sigh* My daughter on the other hand has beautiful thick long hair - like yours!
ReplyDeleteGreat list of disadvantages!
Good advice :)
ReplyDeleteI myself have been growing my hair out for about five years now, but since it's really curly as it gets longer my hair just keeps curling tighter, and tighter, and tighter. Pretty much unless I straighten it my hair is only about five centimetres longer than it was when I was 10.
This was an awesome post! I never would have thought about using all that for a character, even though I've had long hair in the past. So many things one forgets! My daughter has long hair right now, and won't cut it before her wedding at the end of June this year. I'm sure she could relate to a lot of these issues!
ReplyDeleteHi Diane - had to comment .. love your red hair, or just hair and that lovely rich colour ... looks gorgeous. I've always had thin hair and can't grow it .. now it's receding rapidly! Such is life .. my short hair was a blessing while I was playing squash ...
ReplyDeleteTough now - I just am me!! Cheers Hilary